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Senior Executives | Successful Entrepreneurs | High Performers

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Feeling trapped by success?

Ready to Create More Meaning and Purpose in Your Life
But It Feels Too Difficult - Like You'll Lose Too Much?

It's time to end the stress and burn-out, step out from behind your career, and find the meaning that you crave

personal and professional coaching for

Senior Executives | Successful Entrepreneurs | High Performers

Feeling trapped by success?

Ready to Create More Meaning and Purpose in Your Life
But It Feels Too Difficult - Like You'll Lose Too Much?

It's time to end the stress and burn-out, step out from behind your career, and find the meaning that you crave
You’re not average in any sense of the word! 
You’re successful, driven, and ambitious. You have always been a 
high achiever, always wanted more out of life, and you’ve had little 
trouble achieving your goals. 

But now you feel trapped - by your success, by what you have been able 
to achieve. To step back, even a little, feels terrifying - as if 
you will lose your identity.

Yet you crave a life that is slower, that has more meaning, more time for 
finding inner peace and spending time with loved ones, doing what you love.
“Shirley has a talent both in recognizing with great precision where the excuses we give ourselves are hiding, and in taking me to a more centered, unified, true place. A place where the difference between what is really important to me, and what my inner saboteur wants to make important, finally became more apparent. I've become more aware and accepting of myself and my emotions, and able to come from a more grounded, confident place. My communication skills have improved, and so have my relationships. I was able to rewrite a long held 'story' that I don't finish things, and produced 3 videos, launched a website, and got my first paying photography client with more to come."
~ Alex P, Professional Musician and Photographer

Can You Relate?
  • You want to stop feeling disillusioned and trapped by a successful career and make the leap to a new career or to find a renewed purpose and meaning in your current career!
  • You want to leave behind feeling unbalanced in life and bearing too much responsibility and start feeling whole, centered, and excited about life again!
  • You want to end the exhaustion, burn-out and lack of joy and leap into a renewed sense of energy, vitality and happiness!
  • You miss that sense of inner peace and well being and are ready to experience deep peace, joy and wholeness again!
  • You are tired of feeling alone and isolated from friends and family and you’re ready to achieve deeper connections and have fun!
  • You want to end the guilt, strained relationships and feeling of disconnection from your kid's or friend's lives and you’re ready to create renewed and meaningful relationships with them
  • You want to end the self doubt and lack of confidence (impostor syndrome!) and start tapping into your strengths, self assurance and inner power!
  • You want to stop feeling empty, numb and unfulfilled and finally find deep peace, fulfillment, and to feel alive!
You’re not average in any sense of the word! 
You’re successful, driven, and ambitious. You have always been a high achiever, always wanting more out of life, and you've had little trouble achieving your goals.

But now you feel trapped - by your success, by what you have been able 
to achieve. To step back, even a little, feels terrifying - as if 
you will lose your identity.

Yet you crave a life that is slower, that has more meaning, more time for 
finding inner peace and spending time with loved ones, doing what you love. 
“Shirley has a talent both in recognizing with great precision where the excuses we give ourselves are hiding, and in taking me to a more centered, unified, true place. A place where the difference between what is really important to me, and what my inner saboteur wants to make important, finally became more apparent. I've become more aware and accepting of myself and my emotions, and able to come from a more grounded, confident place. My communication skills have improved, and so have my relationships. I was able to rewrite a long held 'story' that I don't finish things, and produced 3 videos, launched a website, and got my first paying photography client with more to come."
~ Alex P, Professional Musician and Photographer

Can You Relate?
  • You want to stop feeling disillusioned and trapped by a successful career and make the leap to a new career or to find a renewed purpose and meaning in your current career!
  • You want to leave behind feeling unbalanced in life and bearing too much responsibility and start feeling whole, centered, and excited about life again!
  • You want to end the exhaustion, burn-out and lack of joy and leap into a renewed sense of energy, vitality and happiness!
  • You miss that sense of inner peace and well being and are ready to experience deep peace, joy and wholeness again!
  • You are tired of feeling alone and isolated from friends and family and you’re ready to achieve deeper connections and have fun!
  • You want to end the guilt, strained relationships and feeling of disconnection from your kid's or friend's lives and you’re ready to create renewed and meaningful relationships with them
  • You want to end the self doubt and lack of confidence (impostor syndrome!) and start tapping into your strengths, self assurance and inner power!
  • You want to stop feeling empty, numb and unfulfilled and finally find deep peace, fulfillment, and to feel alive!
But You May be Thinking....
"But there's no way out! I have responsibilities - a successful career, a family who relies on me earning this salary, staff to think about. 

There's no way I can slow down or do something different. It just can't happen!"
But You May be Thinking....
"But there's no way out! I have responsibilities - a successful career, a family who relies on me earning this salary, staff to think about. 

There's no way I can slow down or do something different. It just can't happen!"

Guess what?

there's good news!

Hi, I'm Shirley Oya

And I've helped hundreds of high performers, just like you, to find more meaning and purpose, gain back more time, and to live the life that they yearn for.

I know how scary it can be to think of stepping back a little, or even stepping out of the life that you've created, and into a new one. I know, because I've done it myself! There are so many doubts and fears:
  • Will my family and friends think less of me?
  • If I don't work this hard, I'll stop moving forward
  • How will I continue to fund the lifestyle my family are used to?
  • ​Do I even know how to relax and spend more time with loved ones?
But with a little thoughtful planning, and uncovering what is keeping you stuck, it is totally possible to transition to a life full of meaning, quality time, and more fulfilling relationships and pursuits, without losing all that you have achieved.

If you're ready to kick the stress and feel vibrant, fulfilled, and full of energy again, click the button below to claim your Complimentary Strategy Session. In this 90 minute session we'll uncover your deeper desires, set goals, and formulate a plan to achieve them, even if you feel completely stuck right now.
You Have Nothing to Lose!

Guess what?

there's good news!

Hi, I'm Shirley Oya

And I've helped hundreds of high performers, just like you, to find more meaning and purpose, gain back more time, and to live the life that they yearn for.

I know how scary it can be to think of stepping back a little, or even stepping out of the life that you've created, and into a new one. I know, because I've done it myself! There are so many doubts and fears:
  • Will my family and friends think less of me?
  • If I don't work this hard, I'll stop moving forward
  • How will I continue to fund the lifestyle my family are used to?
  • ​Do I even know how to relax and spend more time with loved ones?
But with a little thoughtful planning, and uncovering what is keeping you stuck, it is totally possible to transition to a life full of meaning, quality time, and more fulfilling relationships and pursuits, without losing all that you have achieved.

If you're ready to kick the stress and feel vibrant, fulfilled, and full of energy again, click the button below to claim your Complimentary Strategy Session. In this 90 minute session we'll uncover your deeper desires, set goals, and formulate a plan to achieve them, even if you feel completely stuck right now.
You Have Nothing to Lose!

Some Client Love

"I see things differently in my work. I feel healthier, stronger, and more confident. My work performance and ability to lead have improved - I am cruising now!"


~ C. F. Senior Executive
"I finally got the courage to leave real estate and I could not be happier about the decision. You were instrumental in helping me realize that I needed to take this leap. Thank you for all that you do!"

~ Dedee V. Photographer & Journalist
“You have enhanced my life so much and your calm demeanor and intelligent questioning and directing have helped me trust my own ‘inner wisdom’. Thank you for all your wonderful, patient, and loving guidance” 
 ~ Fern B. Business Owner
“Shirley quickly accessed some deeper details of my situation and gave me clear guidance on strategies that proved to be helpful. She is straight forward, but gentle and encouraging! I highly recommend her to anyone wanting her services.” 
 ~ Vicki Schmidt RN, MFT
“Shirley is awesome! She has helped me visualize and identify mental blocks that kept me from achieving my maximum potential. She is full of grace and empathy and it's been such a pleasure.”  

~ Michelle C. Co-Founder/Exec Director 
“Shirley took a genuine interest in me as a person and not just as an executive with a global financial services company. Shirley helped me work on myself as a person and ultimately this has helped me become a better leader. ” 
~ Louie V. Senior Vice President

If You Are Ready to Step Into A Life of More Meaning And Vibrancy
Then Click The Button Below to Book Your Complimentary 90 Minute Session

Some Client Love

"I see things differently in my work. I feel healthier, stronger, and more confident. My work performance and ability to lead have improved - I am cruising now!"


~ C. F. Senior Executive
"I finally got the courage to leave real estate and I could not be happier about the decision. You were instrumental in helping me realize that I needed to take this leap. Thank you for all that you do!"

~ Dedee V. Photographer & Journalist
“You have enhanced my life so much and your calm demeanor and intelligent questioning and directing have helped me trust my own ‘inner wisdom’. Thank you for all your wonderful, patient, and loving guidance” 
 ~ Fern B. Business Owner
“Shirley quickly accessed some deeper details of my situation and gave me clear guidance on strategies that proved to be helpful. She is straight forward, but gentle and encouraging! I highly recommend her to anyone wanting her services.” 
 ~ Vicki Schmidt RN, MFT
“Shirley is awesome! She has helped me visualize and identify mental blocks that kept me from achieving my maximum potential. She is full of grace and empathy and it's been such a pleasure.”  

~ Michelle C. Co-Founder/Exec Director 
“Shirley took a genuine interest in me as a person and not just as an executive with a global financial services company. Shirley helped me work on myself as a person and ultimately this has helped me become a better leader. ” 
~ Louie V. Senior Vice President

If You Are Ready to Step Into A Life of More Meaning And Vibrancy
Then Click The Button Below to Book Your Complimentary 90 Minute Session

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